real facts,,,which are really true...point to ponder

Tomorrow you may propose a working woman, but you should marry with these facts firmly grounded in your mind........
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt our home, your family, your ways and even your family name,
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be metOne, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - Your unstinted support, Your sensitivities and most importantly - Your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this......

Please appreciate "HER" ==========

happiness is....

-happiness is playing with my son and remembering my days

-happiness is sitting on a sofa ad reading peanuts with hot tea,,,,

-happiness is enjoying tea and reading newspaper after getting up in the morning and no one to disturb you

-happiness is watching your son grow

-happiness is speaking to your sisters everyday for few minutes and sharing everything and laughing out the blues

healthy ancedotes

-well..to lead, healthy life,,one must just move on,,,,one shouldnt let past emotions hold them back,,because past experiences or thinking about negative ones will hurt,,,so just move on,,just think that those past experiences were chewing gum,,which u have chewed ...there work is done,,,so u have spit the chewed gum asit is useless..kjust like that past experiences,,regrets dont give them any value in your life,,,

-if you are not happy with your present situation,,dont crib,,it will further worsen the situation,,instead keep yourself busy so that you dont think about your situation and if you cant change your situation just think that u have put is some shelf where you cant reach,,thats all///that is its not in your power to solve the problem....take help of time,,think that in time the problem which looks like a mountain will become a speck of dust so why care for it,....and increase your tension...

some lines which i picked from orkut////

1. take 10 -15 minute walk
2. sit in silence for some time
3. everyday when u get up think what is your purpose in life
4. take time out to prayer,,it acts like fuel
5. make three people smile everyday
6. empty the clutter freom your house
7. invest your energy in postive tghoughts instead of thinking about guilts...regrets and negative thoughts
8. realize that life is like a school..and everyday problems just teach you to be strong
9. make peace with your past so that it doesnt screw your resent
10. time heals everything,,give time time
11. enjoy the ride..cause you just get onelife toe njoy...